5000 Facebook Friends | Want to Know my Secret

 

5000 Facebook Friends | Want to know my Secret?

People are always asking me how I made 5,000 Facebook friends and the answer is very simple. I’ll give you all the details later in the post…… for now, I would like to focus on why some businesses can’t build 5,000 Facebook friends.

Why Can’t you Make 5,000 Facebook

Friends

One of the main reasons is that many people wishing to grow their business online using Facebook, simply don’t realise there is a process involved.  What people do is they take it for granted that people will want to be their friend. This is not the case as a rule.

You must remember that not everyone on Facebook is there simply for business and not everyone is interested in what you have to sell.

Treat your Facebook friends with respect, the way you would like to be treated is a great way to start.

What is the process?

To start building 5000 Facebook friends the right way you need to have the follow.

A clear photo of yourself preferably in business mode. Many people put blurry images up which are very unprofessional.

Having a picture of you in a bikini or with your shirt off will not attract professionals interested in your business.

After all you wouldn’t go to a meeting in a bikini or with your shirt off.

5000 Facebook Friends | Want to Know my Secret?

 Treat your Facebook friends like your business associates. One of the crucial mistakes people make when building 5000 Facebook friends is they force sell. What do I mean by “force sell”?  Force selling is when you friend someone on Facebook you immediately post your business on their wall or send them a personal message saying “Hey Sandy, great to friend you, have your heard of this awesome new protein shake my company makes.” ? Or how about this one “Hey Sandy, great to have you as a friend here on Facebook. If there is anything I can help you with feel free to ask me.”

What’s wrong with this you say?  Well for starters, how do you know I’m looking for help and secondly why are you assuming you actually can help me. You have no idea what my qualifications are and who I am. If you did you wouldn’t be asking such questions.  These are actual greetings people have used with me.

This is the worst one. “Hey Sandy, I love networking and I see you do also. What do you think of my business opportunity http://pushymarketinglinkhere.com?

The most popular strategy for making 5000 Facebook friends is the attraction marketing strategy. I’ve been marketing on Facebook for over 3 years now and I would have to say three quarters of the business people on Facebook are not using this method.

Once friended, they also think this is a rite of passage to then send their business opportunity link by either a personal message, via direct email or posting directly onto their new friend’s wall.

What’s my secret to 5000 Facebook Friends?

5000 Facebook Friends | Want to Know my Secret?

I can tell you this… I don’t do any of the above. However, what I do is take an approach of actually making friends and sharing valuable information with them. You have to remember these people have friended me for the following reasons. They want to get to know me, they are looking for a business opportunity or they are looking for what I sell.

They are attracted to the way I market my business online. They see that I’m not spamming my business opportunity but having conversations with my friends and they want in also… they see this as a safe environment to be in. They need this safe environment where they can relax and take their time and get to know, like and trust you.

So, how do I use attraction marketing to gain 5000 Facebook friends?

When you are just starting out you will want to friend about 15 to 20 people per day. This is time consuming, however done the right way can get you great results in no time.

Choose friends with a professional image

Make sure when choosing friends that you surround yourself with those people whose profile image is of them. Don’t go choosing people who use their pets, cars, babies or the latest rock star or Hollywood icon. If you’re using Facebook for business you want to position yourself as a professional so, make sure you also have a professional looking photo of yourself.

Sandy Moore Facebook ProfileLike this

5000 Facebook Friends | Want to know my Secret?Not like this

When people friend you, do this.

When people friend you on Facebook, except the friend request then send this message below. This is the exact message I used to gain 5000 Facebook friends.

Hi firstname,

I’m glad we could connect here at Facebook and I’d like you to know that I mainly use Facebook to build my successful online business.

Feel free to share your blog URL with me if you have one, I’d love to learn more about you, what your interests are and what you’re into online.

Hope your week is a successful one.

Warm regards,

Sandy Moore

Skype: sandymoore1

sandytmoore@gmail.com

whoissandymoore.com

Above is the exact message I used every time I received a new friend request or sent a new friend request. You will notice there are no links to my business opportunity plus I have added a few options for contacting me. You will find by using this message invokes curiosity and your new friend will ask you what business you are in. This gives you the opportunity to send them your free offer and an option to take a look at your business if they choose.  This is a much better way to 5000 Facebook friends without having to spam everyone you meet with your business opportunity.

Use the attraction marketing method to build 5000 Facebook friends and remember is not really about the number of friends you have but the way you interact with these friends.

How to build a relationship with 5000 Facebook friends.

Now, just because they are now your friend does not mean you can start spamming them with your business opportunity. In fact, I can say that I have never posted my business opportunity unless someone has requested it. I would go to the extent of not even posting my business opportunity on my own wall and only post valuable information that will help others. Remember, the average person wanting to learn more about marketing their business online has little or no knowledge on the subject. Take an interest in their posts by commenting and starting discussions and just basically being your friendly self.

How to interact with 5000 Facebook friends?

When interacting you’re 5000 Facebook friends you should be sharing valuable information with them. This information should be shared via your website/blog. Not your business opportunity website. You can share posts about your products and services, new stock, marketing tactics, reviews etc…. what you share specifically depends on your business and what you do. Not only do you share this information on Facebook, there are also hundreds of other social networking sites you can share your valuable information.

Last tip for 5000 Facebook friends

It won’t take too long to get up around the 2,500 mark and when you do making Facebook friends becomes much easier. You now look popular to other people on Facebook and they will soon start sending you requests in bulk, which certainly takes the pressure off your friending regime.

Social Networking can be a time consuming strategy, however being a free method for lead generation, can definitely work to your advantage.

I think Facebook should lift the 5,000 Facebook friend limit….. what do you think?

P.S. I love what I do and so can you…. Connect with me   HERE

Sandy Moore

 

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  • It has been a long time since I’ve seen a blog post on a basic Facebook marketing skill. I love how you talk about using professional photos, and being selective in who you’re friends with on Facebook. I’m glad I know your secrets now :) .
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    Comment by LuSundra Everett on January 27, 2012 at 9:09 am

  • Hey Sandy,
    I have enjoyed reading your post and found your blog post on Facebook very interesting. Particularly the importance of showing your professionsal photo. Thanks for sharing!
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    Comment by Elizabeth on January 27, 2012 at 9:11 am

  • Hey Sandy,
    Of course, 5000 friends is a great number to have. Yet, the power lies in the quality of the connections you make with people and the relationships built along the road. Sharing value through blog posts, commenting and being genuinely interested in what people need/want to experience will improve our impact on Facebook.

    It’s an idea worth considering..perhaps Facebook will lift the limit. I think that 5000 is enough for having a strong base of people who like and trust you. After that limit you can switch to the fanpage :)

    Thanks for sharing your insights Sandy!

    All the best,
    Radu
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    Comment by Radu on January 27, 2012 at 2:29 pm

  • Facebook is constantly changing LuSundra this is why I made this post.

    I’m finding the more professional we are when using Social Media the more professional the platform will remain. Not only this, it’s great for the network marketing industry to show new comers the right way to market online.

    Without some form of discipline everyone would be spamming their links, Facebook would be more of a mess than what it already is.

    Sandy
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    Comment by Sandy Moore on January 27, 2012 at 4:18 pm

  • Thanks for dropping by Elizabeth.

    Using a professional image can certainly make a difference to who befriends you on Facebook.

    Sandy
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    Comment by Sandy Moore on January 27, 2012 at 4:25 pm

  • Hi Radu, agreed that Facebook is about how you connect with people and not the number of friends you have.

    However, this post was about the process I personally used to make those friends.

    Sandy
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    Comment by Sandy Moore on January 27, 2012 at 4:29 pm

  • Hi Sandy
    Definitely, Facebook is Way to Market Your Brand, Company, Product.
    Because now a large and growing portion of some of the most valuable demographics are spending more of their time and attention on Facebook and less on other channels and media.

    I like your example of how you use the professional photos.

    thanks for sharing Sandy!
    ~Easther
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    Sandy Moore Reply:

    As you know Easther, being totally professional on Facebook can gain you a large business following.

    Unfortunately, some business think that all they have to do is add their business link to Facebook and their new customers will come running.

    Big Mistake!!

    Good to see you Easther.

    Sandy
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    Comment by Easther on January 27, 2012 at 6:02 pm

  • You stand out in the crowd for your posts I must say Amazing Sandy! Thank you! Warmest Regards Shirley
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    Sandy Moore Reply:

    Thank you Shirley, you are one of my most frequent guests.

    Always happy to help.

    Sandy
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    Comment by Shirley on January 27, 2012 at 7:28 pm

  • Hey Sandy Thanks for your secrets to getting 5000 friends on Facebook. I totally agree with spamming your link all over the FB. It’s definitely more effective to send a link to someone who expressed interest. Thanks again!
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    Sandy Moore Reply:

    That’s right Daria…. and I guess the more we keep targeting the spammers the faster they too will learn and grow their businesses the right way.

    Sandy
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    Comment by Daria Jackson on January 27, 2012 at 9:03 pm

  • This is great information Sandy. I have been thinking about using Facebook – I have a fanpage, but i never know how to begin the relationship. Your word-for-word response to the request is awesome and sets the tone for future discussions. Thanks for this!
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    Sandy Moore Reply:

    That’s great Val, I’m glad you can use my opening email with your Facebook friends and fans…. helps to take the pressure off from you and your prospective client and to start on the right foot with your new friendship/business partner.

    Sandy
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    Comment by Val Heisey on January 27, 2012 at 10:18 pm

  • Thanks, Sandy for your great tips. I’m just starting using Facebook in this manner. This is really helpful.

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    Sandy Moore Reply:

    Happy my post was useful to you BG.

    Keep up the great work.

    Sandy
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    Comment by BG Jenkins on January 27, 2012 at 11:22 pm

  • Sandy,
    It is important to increase your fan page base. Thanks for the great steps and information. Thanks again for your information!

    Wendy
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    Sandy Moore Reply:

    Thanks for dropping by Wendy and yes, I totally agree with you that your Fan base is crucial to your business and worth building friendships the right way.

    Sandy
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    Comment by Wendy Elwell on January 28, 2012 at 12:02 am

  • Great tips, how do you stay in touch with all your friends. How do you reconnect to ones you haven’t talked to in a while.
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    Sandy Moore Reply:

    Great questions Alecia!!

    I just put this together quickly, I’m sure you will get the idea and make it your own.

    Hi {firstname}

    Wow, I can’t believe how long it’s been since we first connected.

    My online business has been keeping me busy in the past and I
    think it’s about time to reconnect with those who have helped me
    to the top. You being one of them. :-)

    Hope you are having plenty of success so far this year.

    By way of reconnecting with you I would like to take a look at
    your latest ventures, any articles or website posts you have written lately and any success stories you have to share.

    Connect with me on skype and share your link with me.

    Look forward to hearing back from you soon.

    warm regards,

    Sandy Moore
    skype: sandymoore1

    (put your contact details at the bottom so they know you are genuine)
    I use Skype as a way to connect and start an instant conversation.

    Hope this helps.

    Sandy
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    Comment by Alecia Stringer on January 28, 2012 at 5:48 pm

  • Hi Sandy,
    You have done well to get 5000 friends on Facebook.
    I love your strategy, and I can see how it works well.
    Thank you for sharing it with us.
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    Sandy Moore Reply:

    No problem Michael…. you are very welcome.

    It’s the best strategy I’ve seen so far and it was actually passed down to me by Juan Walker.

    However, Juan still invited people to visit his home office (website) and I simply thought it was better not to add any links at all.

    Great to see you again.

    Sandy
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    Comment by Michael Harrington on January 28, 2012 at 7:08 pm

  • Sandy,
    Thanks for the excellent information on Facebook. 5000 friends is incredible. Makes me seriously rethink my lack of use.
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    Great Info…..

    Thanks again,
    Neil
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    Sandy Moore Reply:

    Speaking of lack of use Neil, of course having 5,000 friends is no big deal unless you have a great relationship with them on a regular basis.

    Chat soon

    Sandy
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    Comment by Neil Bednar on January 28, 2012 at 10:09 pm

  • This is great information Sandy! Thanks for sharing those simple to follow tips!
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    Sandy Moore Reply:

    You are very welcome Tonya…. your website is looking awesome!!

    It’s so inspiring to watch you build your business from scratch.

    You Rock Girl!!

    Sandy
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    Comment by Tonya on January 29, 2012 at 1:44 pm

  • Very good introduction, it throws it open for more discussions because it makes you appear sincere and safe. Great post, I will use your intro with small changes.

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    Sandy Moore Reply:

    Glad you liked my Facebook intro Godwin…. I always thought it was the soft approach which suits many people.

    Not everyone is into he hard sell.

    Sandy
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    Comment by Godwin Okoduwa on January 29, 2012 at 2:42 pm

  • Hey Sandy…

    A great post, and awesome to see you give away the secrets on how to get 5,000 friends.

    I’ll be back.

    Aussie, aussie, aussie!!
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    Sandy Moore Reply:

    OI, OI, OI, Luke… great to see you hear…. I love giving away my secrets because I’m a person that is results driven… whether they be my results or my readers…. simply love it!!!!

    Look forward to seeing you again Luke.

    Sandy
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    Comment by Luke Shavak on January 29, 2012 at 4:48 pm

  • Wow Sandy, this is a very detailed explanation, thanks for sharing!
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    Sandy Moore Reply:

    You are so welcome Anne, I hope you can use it to help build your business further.

    Take care

    Sandy
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    Comment by Anne Woko on February 5, 2012 at 6:20 am

  • Hi Sandy,
    I was very informed in this post you’ve shared.Now I know how to use my facebook account to be effective in attracting my friends about the business I an offering. I do agree that you should have a close contact with your friends and do not spam them with the information about your business. Thanks for sharing the exact message you are giving to your new found friend, your strategies will be my guide in letting my friends in facebook be informed with the business I have.

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    Comment by Mhelgie from house and lot on February 6, 2012 at 2:28 am

  • The majority of my friends are old school friends, people I used to work with, people I know now, or the odd person who wanted to add me through a common interest like fitness, children etc. I don’t post anything about my husband and children on there though. I know it is quite safe and my profile is blocked unless I choose to accept a friend. Best way I think.

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    Comment by Horse racing australia on February 8, 2012 at 10:55 pm

  • You have the right approach Mhelgie, which will take you a long way in your business.

    So happy I could help you.

    Warm regards,

    Sandy
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    Comment by Sandy Moore on February 9, 2012 at 1:26 am

  • This is what every Facebook user needs to know before they can start using it for their business. Targetting the right category of users to befriend them is very important than sending requests to random users. Very very useful tips! Thanks for sharing it across!

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    Comment by Kendra Fowler on February 20, 2012 at 12:37 am

  • Is there a way to hide the fact that I’m friends with someone on Facebook from someone else on my friends list?

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